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Hi, I’m Caitlin Cantor. I’m an Individual, Couples, and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist & Dating Coach. I am also a Certified Gestalt Therapist, Psychology Today’s Modern Sex Blogger, sought-after speaker, Relationship Expert, and Sexpert.

I started the Lovingly Blunt blog because I want to share all that I know about dating, relationships, sex, boundaries, and communication, in the lovingly blunt way I’ve become known for.

When I began my personal journey with dating and relationships, I was relationally clueless. Now, I’m a relationship expert, and that blows my mind. If I could go from level 0 on the relationally equipped scale to where I am now–in a healthy, loving marriage with healthy friendships and other relationships, plus teaching others how to do the same on a daily basis–there’s hope for everyone.

That being said, I wish there was someone like me who could have guided me back when I was at the early stages of my own relational journey. I wish there was a lovingly blunt person who could have pointed out how I was getting in my own way. While the therapists and guides I worked with back then offered support, none of them gave me the lovingly blunt guidance I needed.

So, I had to learn everything the hardest of ways. It was a painful journey, and I have dedicated my life to helping make sure others don’t have to go through what I did.

For the past 12 years, I have helped countless individuals and couples create deeply connected, thriving relationships. The combination of my personal experiences with my extensive studies and training in all things dating and relationships makes me uniquely qualified to help people move forward into the partnerships they long for.

If you struggle with dating and relationships, it’s because you haven’t been taught the relational skills you need….yet. That’s why I created this blog. I want you to have the lovingly blunt guidance you need to step into your power, love yourself unconditionally, and create a relationship that is more amazing than what you can imagine right now.

Welcome to my blog! I hope this can be a place of support, education, and growth for you!

Professional Background

I have private practices in both Philadelphia, PA & Margate, NJ, where I see individuals and couples for therapy and coaching. Online therapy and coaching services are also available.

​I earned my Sex Therapy Certification through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT), which requires rigorous education and training in treating issues related to relationships, sex, and sexuality.

I earned my Certification in Gestalt Therapy at The Gestalt Therapy Institute of Philadelphia. Gestalt Therapy is a powerful relational, mind-body, experiential approach to therapy. To be certified in Gestalt Therapy, I dedicated many years of studying and practicing this approach to therapy, and it required me to experience it for years as well.

As a result of my intense training in issues pertaining to both sex and relationships, I am uniquely qualified to work with a wide range of dating, relational and sexual concerns.

I use an eclectic approach to therapy and coaching, which includes: Gestalt Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Experiential Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Sex Therapy, Systemic Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapies (CBT). I also use mindfulness-based techniques, and I help people strengthen their mind-body connection.

​If you’re ready to take ownership of your life and to do the work to create the future you dream of, schedule a free consultation call today. I look forward to speaking to you soon!

Visit my full website for more about me: www.caitlinscouch.com

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